As a H.I.T. Parent, you’re raising a child, not an athlete. You pledge to:

Keep your perspective. Celebrate the wins and individual accomplishments, but the value of sports comes from lessons about attitude, effort, preparation, and being a good teammate.

Relieve the pressure to perform. You have no expectations beyond seeing your child give his best effort.

Add variety to life. Faith, academics, family, friends, community activities, other sports—these are vital to a rich and varied life. Athletics shouldn’t be your child’s sole interest or passion, nor should it be yours.

Be a fan. Sit in the bleachers where your kid can see you. Stay positive and enjoy all the players, not just your own. No swearing, no outbursts, no personal criticism. During the game, you’re a fan, not a coach or an umpire.

Be consistent. Treat your son or daughter the same regardless of the outcome of the game or the performance on the field.

Respect the coach. He manages the games and runs the practices. If you have a question, talk to the coach face-to-face and never criticize the coach in front of your child.

Leave coaching for practice. If your son or daughter wants to play catch, just go play.

Help your child manage time and gear. Let him get his equipment together and dress himself. He should be responsible and accountable for being ready to go on time.

Share your experiences. Help other parents when they ask about your experiences raising a child in sports.

Smile. It’s a game. It’s supposed to be fun. If you’re relaxed, your child will be relaxed. He’ll probably have more fun and perform at his best.